20 Things You Must Have in Your Romantic Relationship

All relationships are unique. Each couple has its own identity, which each half builds. There are those who can’t stand being one without the other, those who are more independent, those who go very fast, others who take their time… In short, each couple is different and that’s what makes it special.

There are, however, some things that you absolutely must have or experience with your partner. First of all, because before you are two, you are you, but also because these things will allow you to have a solid relationship!

1. Respect: It’s THE basis of a couple. If your partner doesn’t respect you, what’s the point? Being belittled by the person, criticizing or mocking, it’s not a life. You deserve so much better.

2. Trust: Having the assurance that your partner, the one who sleeps next to you every night, is trustworthy, is paramount. Every woman deserves to be able to rely on her man and vice versa. Trust is built little by little, thanks to the gestures that partners make to show their other half that there is only them in the world. Trust is a mark of love and allows the relationship to grow, without it being stifled by jealousy.

3. Admiration: Of course, your other half hasn’t climbed Everest but still, you have to admire it a little, right? His little feats should make you proud, that’s the important thing! One small step for humanity, one big one for your couple!

4. Fun: That’s right, fun isn’t just for your Saturday night moments! With Jules too, you have to laugh. Why be afraid to share your (rotten) jokes with him? After all, if he’s determined to spend his life with you, it’s because he loves you just the way you are. Complicity is a part of the romantic relationship that you must preserve absolutely at the risk of ending up in a boring relationship…

5. Spontaneity: With fun comes spontaneity. A touch of madness, from time to time, is appreciable! You don’t ask for him to charter a private jet to take you to Brazil every weekend, but a little impromptu dinner, an outing that will cut you off from the stress of work, that’s what we call spontaneity!

6: Giving of gifts: A small virtue that can spice up a relationship.

7. Tolerance: A man trying to change you, there’s nothing worse. You are who you are and he has to respect that. Sneakers rather than heels? Frozen dish than small dish? That’s just the way it is!

8. Surprises: Sometimes you’d like him to surprise you. A bouquet of flowers, a pretty ring or a scratch ticket: it doesn’t matter, as long as he thinks of you.

9. Security: Being with the person with whom you feel that nothing can happen to you is what every woman is looking for. You don’t have to be a Terminator, just let him soothe and protect you.

10. Tenderness: To tell the truth, we rectify: kisses by the thousands, as if it were raining.

11. Acceptance of the OtherYou have flaws, that’s what makes you who you are. Reckless, capricious or noisy? This is how he should love you and not otherwise!

12. Attention: Receiving attention from the person you love is something that every woman deserves. That doesn’t mean you want to control it or that you’re an attendee! Simply, knowing that he is there, that he is listening to you, is essential. Talking to a wall has never made anyone happy…

13. SupportFeeling supported by your man when the going gets tough is essential! Whether you have a problem at work, with a friend or even your mother-in-law, knowing that Jules is 100% by your side is reassuring.

14. Priority: You have to be the most important person in the eyes of your significant other and that’s non-negotiable.

15. InterestAll women deserve to be valued by their man, never let anyone belittle you and not recognize you for what you are: a good person.

16. Honesty: It is often said that honesty is one of the pillars of a relationship and it’s not for nothing. Sincerity is paramount. Who would want to be with someone who doesn’t have the guts to tell them the truth. We like to be with someone who knows how to tell us when something is wrong without falling into gratuitous criticism.

17. Personality: Don’t hide your true self from your loved one or from others. It doesn’t matter what they think. That’s also why your man fell in love with you!

18. Pride: You are certainly not a trophy that he would have won, however, it is important that your significant other is happy and proud to be by your side.19. ReciprocityAny romantic relationship must be reciprocal. Love cannot be stronger on one side than on the other, otherwise it will cause instability in a relationship.

20. Happiness: The goal of finding someone to share your life with is to be happy. Of course, you will sometimes encounter difficulties that will have to be overcome, but you will always have to remember one essential thing: the happiness of being one with your other half.These 20 things that we wanted to comment on are essential for us to make your relationship as strong as possible.